Open and Genuine Fraternal relations leads to happy Life…..

It is impossible to think about life without relationships. We cannot live without relationship wherever we are like at home, office, Parish, train, buses and in Fraternity. Out body is made such a way that we cannot live with others without relationships. Our bodies need relationship; our mind and emotions have the need of the others. Even to be happy, contented and healthy we need to have a strong and deep relationship with ourselves. 

 Where there are relationships there are some tensions and pains. To enjoy the happiness in life we need to build up good relationship with the others. Sometimes these relationships and bonds get broken due to our own mistakes, both the parties responsible.

 I received some days back a message on whatsup….it says that a plant which is not grown fully due to many factors , if brought under the shadow of a full grown plant…it works miracles….the half grown plant grows and blooms….for a growth of the plant the company of a good plant is always required and desirable. It happens in human life too. When we are in company of the others it gives us happiness, we grow emotionally and psychologically too. And also when a close relationship turns sour it changes the rhythm and vision of our life. 

We build up relationships to fulfill some needs and when these needs are not materialized or fulfilled we begin to feel bad about the relationships. When we have selfish motives in relationships, they don’t last longer. Before getting into relationship with the others, it is better to have a wonderful and healthy relationship with oneself. It is good to begin to accept and love oneself in a positive way. It is good to sit down with oneself and evaluate before accusing and blaming others for the wrong feelings that one has. Most of the times there are things and reasons within us which make us to feel low and bad. The solutions to many of our problems are within us.  We need to see the big picture of life. The relationships should not to be under conditions but natural. Don’t think of changing others but ask ourselves what do we need to change about ourselves. If one is not happy with the Life, stop blaming the others and family members.